The Transgender Pride Flag. Visibility, Identity, and the Power of Respect.
The Transgender Pride Flag is a powerful symbol of identity, resilience, and recognition for the trans community. Whether it’s flying high at a Pride march or worn as a small pin on a backpack, this flag stands for those who have had to fight to be seen for who they are—and those still navigating that journey today.
The Story Behind the Flag
The Trans Pride Flag was created in 1999 by Monica Helms, a transgender Navy veteran and activist. She designed the flag with intention: it needed to be inclusive, simple, and instantly recognizable. The flag features five horizontal stripes:
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Blue: The traditional color for baby boys
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Pink: The traditional color for baby girls
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White: For those who are nonbinary, gender-nonconforming, transitioning, or who identify outside the gender binary entirely
One of the most meaningful aspects of Helms’ design is its symmetry—no matter how the flag is flown, it is always “correct.” This reflects a vital truth: there is no wrong way to be transgender.
🔗 Learn more: Transgender Flags – Wikipedia
What the Flag Represents Today
Over the past two decades, the Trans Pride Flag has become a unifying symbol for transgender individuals and allies worldwide. It's used in protests, rallies, community centers, and even as part of the Progress Pride Flag. In a world that too often refuses to accept gender diversity, this flag boldly proclaims: we are here, and we deserve to live openly and safely.
But this fight is far from over.
Trans people, especially trans youth and trans athletes, are under attack by legislative efforts across the country. Trans service members have faced discrimination and even removal from the military. And basic healthcare access for trans individuals is being politicized and denied.
We must raise our voices and stand in solidarity.
Denee Mallon: A Trailblazer for Trans Health Rights
One of the most inspiring figures in the fight for trans healthcare is Denee Mallon, a transgender woman and activist from New Mexico. At age 74, Denee became the first person to legally challenge Medicare’s denial of coverage for gender-affirming surgery—and she won.
Her bravery paved the way for trans people to access medically necessary care without discrimination. In her honor, the Aurora LGBTQ Advisory Board in Aurora, Illinois is raising money to launch the Denee Mallon Scholarship Fund, which will support trans individuals seeking education and advocacy opportunities.
🔗 Find out more on their Facebook page.
Respect Is More Than a Word
Let’s be honest: navigating gender identity—especially as an ally or family member—can sometimes be confusing or uncomfortable at first. When someone you love transitions, it can feel like you’re learning who they are all over again. That’s okay. You don’t have to be perfect—you just have to be willing to try.
💬 Use Their Name and Pronouns
One of the most affirming things you can do is use someone’s correct name and pronouns. It may take time to get used to, and you might slip up. If you do, apologize briefly, correct yourself, and move on. What matters most is effort and respect—not perfection.
❌ What Is a Deadname?
A “deadname” is the name a transgender person was given at birth but no longer uses. We don’t use or ask for someone’s deadname. It can be painful or triggering, as it often represents a time when someone wasn’t able to live authentically. Always refer to someone by their chosen name, and never out someone by referencing their former identity.
❤️ It’s Okay to Have Questions—Just Ask Respectfully
If you're unsure how to support a trans person in your life, it's okay to ask respectful, consent-based questions. But remember: no one owes you their story, and it’s not the job of trans people to educate everyone. Use your resources, listen with empathy, and be open to learning and unlearning.
Visibility Saves Lives
Trans people—especially trans women of color—face disproportionate levels of violence, discrimination, and mental health challenges. But research shows that acceptance, visibility, and support from friends and family significantly reduce risks and improve quality of life.
That’s why we’re proud to support and celebrate the trans community not just during Pride Month, but every single day.
Our Trans-Inclusive Pin Collection
To help support trans visibility and spark important conversations, we offer a growing collection of 1-inch enamel pins, including:
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🏳️⚧️ Trans Pride Flag Pin
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💙💖 He/Him Pronoun Pin
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💖💙 She/Her Pronoun Pin
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🌈 Proud Parent of a Trans Kid Pin
These pins are more than accessories—they’re quiet but powerful statements of love, respect, and solidarity. Whether you're showing your own identity or standing beside someone you love, these pins let people know they’re not alone.
What You Can Do
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Wear your pin proudly
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Support local LGBTQIA+ organizations
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Share resources and accurate information
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Speak up against transphobic legislation
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Contact your legislators and demand equality for trans people
We also recommend watching and reading from trusted sources like:
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The Stonewall Riots – History Channel
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The Death and Life of Marsha P. Johnson – Netflix
Being transgender is not a trend, a phase, or a debate—it’s an identity, and it’s real. The Transgender Pride Flag reminds us of the importance of authenticity, courage, and allyship.
It’s okay if you’re still learning. What matters is that you show up, speak up, and make space. Every time you respect someone’s pronouns, use their chosen name, or wear a symbol of support, you’re helping create a more inclusive world.
Shop our Trans Pride and Pronoun Pins
Because visibility isn’t just symbolic—it’s life-affirming.